Male Anal Pleasure
A group for all guys who enjoy giving and / or receiving male anal pleasure, whether its self pleasuring during masturbation, anal rimming or full-on anal sex with another male! Let's share pleasure tips, anal sex stories and pics if you have! :0)
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Opening up
Return to DiscussionsI'm interested to hear guys thoughts about the best way to relax the anus for penetration ..... what are the best methods? Poppers, anal relaxing creams (based on local anaesthetics)? A good rimming or fingering ..... a good enema or just getting really turned on?
I have found that nothing is more erotic and relaxing than to start with an enema. Over time you can learn how to take and retain your favorite solution. I usually do two before any anal penetration because the enema is so relaxing. If you can get a partner to administer...all the better. Do not be put off by the expulsion..its all part of the experience and can be VERY stimulating. A nice warn bath to soap and clean the anus after the enema will also help to relax and make penetration/licking/massaging all the more pleasurable.
I agree with NudenHappy. I usually start withenemasto make sure I'm good and clean and to start the relaxation process. Then I warm up and use a fewdildosto get used to it. In the process of using them I amessentiallylubing up.
Poppers can help, but when they wear off, you may tighten up again a bit. I prefer to get used to having him in me, then use the poppers when It's time to REALLY go at it.
If you practice with use dildos, you can practiceconsciouslyrelaxing your muscles to make it easier. It's counter-intuitive, but think of gently trying to push it out. That will relax thesphincter.
Hope that helps you